About Melissa Raddatz
About John Solberg
Clinical Intern
Most people don't come to therapy because they've fallen apart. They come because the strategies that built their lives have quietly become the source of their suffering. Performing instead of feeling. Overriding discomfort instead of listening to it. Staying in control because letting go feels unthinkable. We find ways to cope until they stop working.
I work with children, individuals, couples, and families from all backgrounds. My approach in individual work is building awareness of interoception and how it governs emotion, drawing on CBT, DBT, and EFT. Interoception is what you experience when you stop explaining. The mind explains. The body knows. Emotion is the reality that unites the two.
My approach in couples and family work is similar. What happens between people registers in the body before it becomes conflict. The work is turning toward it and experiencing what it means.
Before this work, I was an attorney for 25 years in legal, policy, and tech roles at two large organizations. That work taught me how people hold themselves together under pressure, and what it costs them. The ones who look the most capable are often carrying the most.
I'm completing a Master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at Adams State University and internship at Kenosis Counseling under the clinical supervision of Melissa Raddatz, LMFT, LAC.
Email: john@kenosiscounseling.com
Pronouns: he/him/his
About Amanda Hainer
Practicing Clinical Intern
I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate the complex landscape of modern relationships, providing a compassionate and holistic approach that sees beyond surface-level struggles. My work is dedicated to understanding the nuanced ways our personal experiences and systemic pressures impact our ability to connect, heal, and grow.
Drawing from a blend of Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Gottman Method, I use a tailored approach that honors each client's unique experience. I am particularly passionate about supporting LGBTQ+, kinky, and non-monogamous clients, creating a safe and affirming space where diverse relationship structures and identities are deeply respected. My practice is committed to helping you identify and understand relational patterns, develop deeper emotional intimacy, increase satisfaction around physical intimacy, and create more authentic, meaningful connections in your life
Email: amanda@kenosiscounseling.com
About Helene Bansley
Practicing Clinical Intern
About Helene Bansley Practicing Clinical Intern chose to become a therapist because I have always been passionate about people, relationships, and cultivating a deep understanding of ourselves and the world around us. I am currently pursuing a Master's degree in Couple and Family Therapy and I specialize in treating couples, families, and individuals. I approach each client with nonjudgment, curiosity, and compassion so that I can create a space where they feel safe to show up as their most authentic self. I am trained in systems theory, which means I look at the broader context of an individual or relationship's current situation. I draw from various modalities, such as Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Solution Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, and the Gottman Method. I appreciate parts work and EFT specifically for couples because they examine the primary emotions going on underneath the pain. We all feel sadness, abandonment, grief, or disappointment at some point in our lives. Feeling these emotions, let alone sharing them with another human being, can be incredibly vulnerable and scary. It can also be incredibly healing and transformative. I believe this is where true change can happen. I welcome clients of all backgrounds and identities and feel especially passionate about LGBTQ clients and diverse relationship structures. I embody a very collaborative approach and want to get to know your unique goals for the time we spend together. I will do my best to facilitate a path towards self-discovery, personal growth, and more meaningful connection.
Email: helene@kenosiscounseling.com
About Shanna Utecht
Practicing Clinical Intern
I chose to become a therapist because I am deeply interested in people, relationships, and understanding how our experiences shape the way we connect with ourselves and others. I believe therapy can be a powerful space to slow down, explore emotions, and create meaningful change through connection.
I approach each client with warmth, curiosity, and compassion, and I strive to create a safe, nonjudgmental environment where you can show up as your authentic self. I enjoy working with individuals, couples, and families who are navigating anxiety, emotional overwhelm, life transitions, and relational challenges.
I am currently pursuing my Master's degree in Couples and Family Therapy, where my work is informed by attachment-based therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS)–informed practices, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)–informed approaches, and person-centered care. I also view concerns through a systems lens, meaning I consider the broader relational and environmental contexts that influence you and your relationships. Together, we may explore patterns, emotional responses, and internal “parts” that are contributing to distress or disconnection.
I believe emotions carry important information, and that learning to identify, tolerate, and share them—especially within relationships—can feel vulnerable and challenging, yet deeply healing. I place a strong emphasis on emotional awareness, safety, and connection within the therapeutic relationship, and I work at a pace that feels supportive and collaborative.
What to expect in our work together
- Our work may include exploring how past experiences and attachment patterns influence the way you relate to yourself and others today.
- We will place intentional focus on emotions—naming them, understanding their purpose, and noticing how they show up in both the mind and body.
- You can expect a collaborative process. You are the expert of your own life, and I welcome your feedback, questions, and curiosity about the therapeutic process. If something doesn’t feel helpful or aligned, we can talk about it together.
- Above all, I aim to create a space where you feel supported, empowered, and respected as we work toward greater insight, resilience, and more secure, meaningful connection.
Email: shanna@kenosiscounseling.com
About Lesteen Cy
Practicing Clinician Intern
I am currently a CU Denver student pursuing my Masters in Couples and Family Therapy. I have experience in Solution Focused Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Emotional Focused Therapy Externship, and currently pursuing Gottman trainings.
Life is already hard enough whether you are dealing with depression, anxiety, grief, or anything else. I want you to know that you are not alone and I can help you navigate through those challenges. I value our professional relationship and I will help you feel supported, empowered, and ready to tackle the challenges you face. Therapy is a continuation of work towards your goals and what brings you in. This is a healing journey and I am here to support you.
About Melissa Raddatz
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Licensed Addictions Counselor
Owner and Clinical Director
Melissa Raddatz, MA, LMFT, LAC, is a licensed and highly experienced therapist specializing in addiction counseling and relationship dynamics. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and Licensed Addiction Counselor (LAC), Melissa has over a decade of experience treating individuals, couples, and families struggling with a variety of issues, including substance abuse, mental health challenges, and relational dynamics.
Melissa is the founder of Kenosis Counseling, where she provides compassionate, personalized therapy for clients of all backgrounds. Her expertise lies in addressing complex issues such as substance use disorders, adolescent development, trauma, and family systems. She serves as a trainer for the Colorado Office of Behavioral Health, where she educates other professionals in addiction counseling skills and case conceptualization. She is also a Certified Clinical Supervisor with the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT).
With a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy from Regis University and a Bachelor of Science in Psychology from Metropolitan State University of Denver, Melissa’s academic background provides a strong foundation for her work. Over the years, she has worked in various clinical settings, including Denver Health, Centennial Peaks Hospital, and Rangeview Counseling Center, where she provided critical care, crisis intervention, and educational services for those in need. She also has served as an adjunct professor at Front Range Community College, teaching courses on human development.
Melissa continually enhances her skills through advanced training in therapeutic techniques such as Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), and Brainspotting. She is trained in the Gottman Method for couples therapy and has specialized training in trauma-informed care and military family counseling.
An approved clinical supervisor AAMFT, Melissa is committed to mentoring future therapists and promoting excellence in the field. Her dedication to professional development and client care has earned her recognition for her exceptional communication and leadership abilities.
Melissa’s approach to therapy is rooted in empathy and a commitment to helping clients heal, grow, and build healthier lives. She is actively involved in several professional organizations, including the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (ASSECT), as well as honors societies like DELTA KAPPA and Psi Chi.
Email: melissa@kenosiscounseling.com
Pronouns: she/her/hers
Associations, memberships, and board position
AAMFT - American Association for Marriage and Family Therapist
AASECT - American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists
ICEEFT - International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy
RMFTN - Rocky Mountain Family Therapy Network, associated with AAMFT, Member at Large Board Member
Member https://www.rockymountainfamilytherapy.network/team
About Shar Curtis
Clinical Administrative Coordinator
As the Clinical Administrative Coordinator at Kenosis Counseling, Shar plays a vital role in supporting the heart of our practice-our clinicians and clients. She manages the behind-the-scenes logistics that keep everything running smoothly, including clinician onboarding, credentialing, scheduling coordination, and compliance tracking. Shar is also the go-to person who ensures that clients can successfully use their insurance benefits with Kenosis, guiding the process with clarity and care. Her attention to detail and deep commitment to service make her an invaluable part of our team. Thanks to Shar, our clients and clinicians experience an organized, supportive, and seamless path to care.